which is much better?

Being immature is a normal thing, of course not all people are matured and can handle things properly. but what I hate in being immature is the abnormal one, we should act accordingly to our age right? everyone hates it we know that, I mean who wants to be with a person who cannot act according to his/her age. I want to share this to you guys just to cut or at least minimize the unnecessary things, yes being abnormally immature has good effect but I think the only one who benefits for this is the one who acts for it. Lets be considerate that there are more people seeing what we are doing and they can judge us with our acts, and for that we must be responsible for whatever decision we made. Just act according to your age be matured and responsible enough in whatever action we made...

Sand and Stone

Two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE."

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one, who had been slapped, got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After the friend recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE."

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."